Taking care of your sexual needs is a normal, healthy part of self-care. If you’re exploring options, here are some popular and body-safe tools to consider:
1. Clitoral Vibrators
- Best for: Focused external stimulation.
- Try: Bullet vibrators (like We-Vibe Tango) or air-pressure toys (like Womanizer). These use gentle suction/pulsation instead of vibration, which many find intense but satisfying.
- Why: 80% of people with vulvas need clitoral stimulation to orgasm.
2. G-Spot Toys
- Best for: Internal stimulation.
- Try: Curved vibrators (like Pillow Talk Sassy) or dual-stimulation “rabbit” toys.
- Tip: Use water-based lube to avoid irritation.
3. Versatile Wands
- Best for: Broad or targeted stimulation.
- Try: Magic Wand Rechargeable – powerful, rumbly vibrations that work externally or with attachments.
4. Dildos
- Best for: Mimicking penetration.
- Materials matter: Opt for silicone (non-porous, easy to clean). Try ergonomic designs like Uberrime or dual-density options for realism.
5. Kegal Exercisers
- Bonus: Toys like Elvie or Luna Beads can strengthen pelvic floor muscles while adding subtle pleasure.
Safety & Comfort Tips:
- Material: Avoid jelly toys – they harbor bacteria. Stick to silicone, glass, or stainless steel.
- Cleanliness: Wash before/after use with toy cleaner or mild soap.
- Lube: Always use water-based or hybrid lubes with silicone toys.
Final Thoughts:
There’s no “right” choice – it’s about what feels good to you. Start simple, prioritize body-safe materials, and remember: Solo play is about empowerment, not shame. Sex shops like Lovehoney or Spectrum Boutique offer discreet shipping and educational guides if you want to explore further.
